A Practical 3 Step Approach to Develop Complete Acceptance in Relationships

Lies destroy a relation, whereas acceptance is the alchemy to form golden relationships.

Last night, my best friend Raj called me. He told me his wife caught him lying red-handedly. A huge fight erupted. I asked what was he doing? He said he was in a meditation session!

It might sound silly. But don’t we all lie about simple things? When others don't approve, we twist the truth a bit.

His meditations scare his wife. She thinks he will leave his family for spirituality. After a while, it became futile to make her understand. Her closed mind always suspected. Mild frictions led to his lying habit. But it gave them both some peace of mind.

When someone close doesn’t support you, you hide things for the sake of both. You want to protect them and yourself, too. To avoid any emotional tussle — the easy way is to lie.

Most people lie to avoid conflicts. They choose a route of least resistance. The non-acceptance of their loved ones leads them to lie. It is not entirely their fault.

If someone lies to you, look inside yourself first. Ask these questions — Do your close ones often lie to you? How open are you to accept the truth of loved ones, even if it is scary? Do you try to mold people according to your beliefs?

If Raj had cleared things beforehand, it would have made things easy for them. But instead of clearing out her doubts, it increased her distrust. But actual communication happens when both are listening.

If you lied or if someone lied to you, acknowledge it. Don’t point fingers at others. You can not attract authentic relations until you are genuine.

If you lied, accept it at least to yourself. Hiding from self makes little sense. Be clear about the underlying emotions. Was it fear of repercussions? Are your activities…

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